Everything you need know about sex on your period!
Sex on your period… yes please or no way? A huge taboo for some people while a massive turn on for others. No matter which end of the crimson wave...
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What are you listening to? Your guide to finding the best audio porn
Audible porn, the new and welcome addition to the porn playing field, especially among vulva owners. We’ve seen a shift in recent years with many starting to shy away from...
Watching porn with your partner 👀
Some may never dream of sharing their porn collection with someone else, after all it’s personal and very private! However, at Love Not War we think sharing this vulnerable moment...
Have some Pride: Queering up sex toys
When we normally discuss the use of sex toys and vibrators it is normally discussed within the heteronormative gaze of different-sex couple play or masturbation by cis-gendered vulva owners. As we enter...
Realistic truths about sex
If you have had sex, you’ll know it’s not how it seems in the movies or on porn, and there’s a reason for that. Sex isn’t a movie or a...
The Benefits of Lube
Often when buying a sex toy or vibrator or even condoms, lube tends to be something that gets overlooked in the preparation process. Treated like a dirty secret in the...
A beginner's guide to mutual masturbation.
What is mutual masturbation? Mutual masturbation actually has two definitions: masturbating yourselves in the company of each other, or doing hand stuff to each other. Here, we’re talking about masturbating...
Why masturbation should be a part of your self-care routine
It’s time we talk about the benefits of solo play. In the past, masturbation has often been seen as a taboo, or something only single, or desperate people do. However,...
Heating things up – a guide to temperature play with sex toys
If you’re looking for new ways to heat up things in the bedroom or maybe even cool it down a few notches, why not try temperature play? Ever heard of...
We’ve got some big news!
Love Not War is celebrating this month. Not only have we launched our most sustainable product yet, the Maya, but we’ve also won TWO prestigious awards! From the beginning, we...
Meet Maya, the toy that helps you save the planet from your bedroom
Happy Earth Day! The theme of this years earth day, is “Invest In Our Planet”, a statement that Love Not War takes seriously. From the beginning, Love Not War’s mission...
Top tips for keeping a vagina healthy
At Love Not War, we want to constantly help people improve their intimacy and have a more satisfying sex life. This week's blog focus is on the vagina and vulva, ...
Finding your Erotic Blueprint...
We’ve been seeing the term ‘Erotic Blueprint’ thrown around a lot recently, so we wanted to get to the bottom of what it actually is, and we are SO glad...
BDSM - What is it and how should I introduce it into the bedroom?
Love Not War is a sex positive brand, and we believe that your bedroom desires are something that should be openly discussed and explored without judgement. Whether it’s with a...
Product Review: Meet Koi
Meet Koi, the latest eco-friendly vibrator here at Love Not War, a full-headed wand vibrator that proves that petite can be powerful. Small in stature but packing a punch with four...
Finding the right toy for you
Everyone who owns a sex toy will know how difficult it can be to choose your very first toy, after all, how do you know what you’re going to enjoy...