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“All our love. not war. toys are made from recycled aluminium and the G-Spot vibe’s slick design and simple interface opens the door to ecstasy-inducing G-Spot play.”

“For a slimline bullet that looks like a vape pen, the Meile model from ‘love. not war.’ is truly one of the best I’ve ever tried….I lost a weekend to this one.”

“The best part is, it’s eco-friendly, made from recycled materials that are as good for the planet as they are for you or your partner.”

“With 4 inches of insertable length, Liebe is a great G-spot vibrator for beginners.”


Award-winning, sustainable sex toys that don’t cost the earth.

All our eco-friendly products make no compromises when it comes to your pleasure or the planet, so you can treat yourself to the pleasure you deserve.

The heads collection

Did you know that you only need ONE Power of Love Battery Base for the entire love. not war. heads range? Saving the earth, and your pocket, one O at a time.

It’s our sleek, innovative design that has helped us make a splash in the industry and led us to so many award wins in such a short space of time.


What Is NeoSilicone™?

NeoSilicone™ is the world’s first silicone compound that’s safe to use with silicone lubricants and eliminates any previous concerns around silicone-based lubricants breaking down the silicone in sex toys. 

It’s also the first time such a material has ever been used in a sex toy, and right now it’s completely unique to Love Not War!

You won’t notice any difference in the sensation of our sex toys: the new NeoSilicone™ feels every bit as exquisite as the silicone with which our original products were made. 

All previous generations of LOVE NOT WAR “Heads” and “Power of Love” battery bases remain compatible with the new NeoSilicone™ upgrades.

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Überlube, the high-end silicone based lubricant is now available to purchase with our love. not war. NeoSilicone products



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