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Spicing up your Halloween

Interested in spicing things up this spooky-season? Here at LOVE NOT WAR we’ve put together some super sexy Halloween ideas to keep you screaming throughout the night!  Roleplay  Who doesn’t...

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Nipple Orgasms, have you had one?

At Love Not War, we are firm believers in the pleasure revolution and to experience pleasure to the max, we need to move outside of understanding pleasure as something to...

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Is it weird to gift a Sex Toy?

What do you get the friend that has everything? Or a friend who may be recently single, going through menopause, or simply in need? A vibrator, duh! Of course we’re...

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Sex and Mental Health

At Love Not War, part of our pleasure revolution is better education surrounding sex, wellness, and mental health. But can masturbation and pleasure help our mental health or is that a myth?...

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We’ve been shortlisted!

It’s no secret that at LOVE NOT WAR we’ve had a record year for award wins with five already under our belt. And while some might say that that’s enough,...

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Finding Green Flags in a Partner

The term ‘Red Flag’ is something that gets thrown around a lot in the dating world, especially since the rise of dating apps. It’s become a huge talking point when...

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Kink vs Fetishes

At Love Not War, it’s no secret that we are big advocates of sex and sustainability and that they go hand in hand, just look at our range of eco-friendly...

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How to watch porn ethically

Mainstream porn is often criticised for being focused on the heteronormative male gaze and its depiction of unrealistic and often violent sex, one type of feminine body, fake orgasms and the fetishisation...

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Love Not War is celebrating!

It’s been a good week for Love Not War as earlier this week we received our FOURTH award win this year with the Marie-Claire Sustainability Awards naming us the ‘Best...

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