Is it weird to gift a Sex Toy?
What do you get the friend that has everything? Or a friend who may be recently single, going through menopause, or simply in need? A vibrator, duh! Of course we’re...
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Sex and Mental Health
At Love Not War, part of our pleasure revolution is better education surrounding sex, wellness, and mental health. But can masturbation and pleasure help our mental health or is that a myth?...
Top Tips for Bathtub Masturbation
At LOVE NOT WAR we believe wholeheartedly in the many benefits of masturbation. We also know that in the past it’s often been seen as a bit of taboo that...
Vaginismus Awareness – Sex Toys, Painful Sex and Pleasure
(T.W: SA) At Love Not War, we believe that pleasure and sexual wellness are two topics that go hand in hand. To honour this, our resident copywriter, Katrina Fairhurst, wanted...
We’ve been shortlisted!
It’s no secret that at LOVE NOT WAR we’ve had a record year for award wins with five already under our belt. And while some might say that that’s enough,...
It’s been a busy week for Love Not War!
We’re so excited to announce that earlier this week we received our fifth award win of the year- we’ve been named “Best New Pleasure Product Company” at the annual XBIZ...
Finding Green Flags in a Partner
The term ‘Red Flag’ is something that gets thrown around a lot in the dating world, especially since the rise of dating apps. It’s become a huge talking point when...
Kink vs Fetishes
At Love Not War, it’s no secret that we are big advocates of sex and sustainability and that they go hand in hand, just look at our range of eco-friendly...
How to watch porn ethically
Mainstream porn is often criticised for being focused on the heteronormative male gaze and its depiction of unrealistic and often violent sex, one type of feminine body, fake orgasms and the fetishisation...
Let’s Talk About Vaginal Lubrication…
Perhaps you, like most of the world, enjoyed Cardi B and Megan The Stallion’s WAP song that swept the music world with viger last year. If so, you were also...
Love Not War is celebrating!
It’s been a good week for Love Not War as earlier this week we received our FOURTH award win this year with the Marie-Claire Sustainability Awards naming us the ‘Best...
Porn Vs Erotica – what’s the difference?
Whether you enjoy watching porn or listening to it via audiobooks or a podcast, many of us find added visual or audio components to our masturbation habits to be a...
The pursuit of pleasure not an orgasm!
At Love Not War we believe an orgasm is not the main aim of sex, it’s about the experience as a whole. And while an orgasm can obviously be an...
How to become sexually confident – A pleasure manifesto
Sexual confidence isn’t something we’re taught about very often. It certainly wasn’t covered in the sex education curriculum at school anyway although that definitely shouldn’t be a bench mark for...
Everything you need know about sex on your period!
Sex on your period… yes please or no way? A huge taboo for some people while a massive turn on for others. No matter which end of the crimson wave...
What are you listening to? Your guide to finding the best audio porn
Audible porn, the new and welcome addition to the porn playing field, especially among vulva owners. We’ve seen a shift in recent years with many starting to shy away from...