How to watch porn ethically
Mainstream porn is often criticised for being focused on the heteronormative male gaze and its depiction of unrealistic and often violent sex, one type of feminine body, fake orgasms and the fetishisation...
Mainstream porn is often criticised for being focused on the heteronormative male gaze and its depiction of unrealistic and often violent sex, one type of feminine body, fake orgasms and the fetishisation...
It’s been a good week for Love Not War as earlier this week we received our FOURTH award win this year with the Marie-Claire Sustainability Awards naming us the ‘Best...
Whether you enjoy watching porn or listening to it via audiobooks or a podcast, many of us find added visual or audio components to our masturbation habits to be a...
At Love Not War we believe an orgasm is not the main aim of sex, it’s about the experience as a whole. And while an orgasm can obviously be an...
Sexual confidence isn’t something we’re taught about very often. It certainly wasn’t covered in the sex education curriculum at school anyway although that definitely shouldn’t be a bench mark for...
Sex on your period… yes please or no way? A huge taboo for some people while a massive turn on for others. No matter which end of the crimson wave...
Audible porn, the new and welcome addition to the porn playing field, especially among vulva owners. We’ve seen a shift in recent years with many starting to shy away from...
Some may never dream of sharing their porn collection with someone else, after all it’s personal and very private! However, at Love Not War we think sharing this vulnerable moment...
If you have had sex, you’ll know it’s not how it seems in the movies or on porn, and there’s a reason for that. Sex isn’t a movie or a...
Often when buying a sex toy or vibrator or even condoms, lube tends to be something that gets overlooked in the preparation process. Treated like a dirty secret in the...
What is mutual masturbation? Mutual masturbation actually has two definitions: masturbating yourselves in the company of each other, or doing hand stuff to each other. Here, we’re talking about masturbating...
It’s time we talk about the benefits of solo play. In the past, masturbation has often been seen as a taboo, or something only single, or desperate people do. However,...