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Finding the right toy for you

Everyone who owns a sex toy will know how difficult it can be to choose your very first toy, after all, how do you know what you’re going to enjoy the most? For some, it’s a large investment that may seem off-putting. Imagine spending so much money on a sex toy for you to find it just simply, meh. (We can guarantee that won’t happen, but still!)

We feel as a sex toy brand, it’s only right for us to create a ‘beginners’ guide as we want to ensure you make an informed choice! So depending on your preferences, we’ve made your choice that little bit easier by categorising our toys. Also, once you’ve found your holy grail of a toy, all our heads are interchangeable, meaning you can add any head to your vibrator base. Why not try one from each category!

If external loving is your thing, these toys are great for nipple, clit and all over external play!



Our Amore vibrator feels super soft to the touch, but don’t be fooled by its petite size, it’s deceptively powerful. Whether you prefer discreet solo play or want to get intimate with your partner, this sleekly designed classic bullet is here to give you all the pleasure plus more. Although it’s great for external play, the Amore is safe for vaginal usage and is long enough to reach the G-spot on many bodies. 

Next up, we have the Meile, this toy is great at getting straight to the point, literally. The Meile has a ballpoint tip which is perfect to reach those nooks and crannies during foreplay, and similar to the Amore vibrator, its silicone head is super soft, but it packs a punch. 

Finally, we have our best-seller, the Koi. The Koi has a fuller head to stimulate a larger surface area. And for the eco-conscious amongst us, this petite but powerful toy is the most sustainable wand on the market! Don’t be fooled by its small appearance, the Koi offers rumbling vibrations that penetrate deep, and as an added bonus, the Koi is perfect for body massages and relieving neck tension.

For G-Spot and clit stimulation, but external loving too: 


Enter, Laska: it is deceptively rumbly with depth to reach the whole clitoris. Laska is a modern take on the classic ‘Rabbit’ vibrator, and we’ll be honest, its ears scream for experimenting. It packs all the punch of a larger toy and is perfectly shaped to massage your clit, or hit your g-spot and its smooth silky silicone ears feel great against nipples. 

We understand that every body is different, and every g-spot is unique. That’s why we created the Kama. We have tailored and angled the design of Kama’s head to provide an intense sensation on the G-spot but also ensured its surface is great for clit stimulation too, helping you explore your body. Kama feels rumbly and silky smooth against your G-spot, and the bulbous head helps you reach unexplored places.

For internal, g-spot and vulva play:


Our Liebe, just like all of our toys, feels silky smooth and soft with just the right level of rumbliness. Liebe starts off slow, and builds up, helping you explore what you love. The Liebe is perfect for beginners, the flattened head helps you apply just the right amount of pressure, enabling you to find your g-spot and letting that pressure build. 

Last but certainly not least, we have the Grá. Our only toy with a ribbed, textured surface, adding a satisfying sensation. The Grá promises to leave you wanting to explore more. It helps you feel different sensations deep inside with its many settings.

So, that’s a round-up of the Love Not War collection, hopefully, this guide helps you pick your first vibrator with confidence and ease. However, if you still feel unsure, the Love Not War team is here to help you make your mind up. We hope to see you again to explore our whole head range. X



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